Discipline problems are common for new teachers.
Even after many years of teaching, there are discipline challenges
There are different kinds of discipline problems in
the classroom. One is the type where the whole class is unruly and
it's very hard to pinpoint who is creating the problem, so it's hard
to single one person out. If you do single someone out then she/he
complains that it was someone else who started the problem. In
situations like this, which are by far the worst for teachers, I
would recommend the following steps (these are not in order-it all
depends on the situation):
1) Look at yourself: Do you fully understand the
material that you are teaching and have anticipated the problems that
students may have? Are you presenting material that is too hard? too
easy? Are you connecting with your students? Do you have enough
structure? Try having someone videotape your lesson. Are you
presenting yourself as a firm but caring teacher? Are you engaging in
mannerisms that give away that you are insecure? Students have an
extra sense for this. If this is the case, try to relax and make time
to get to know your students individually.
2) Are you allowing time to explain the new
material? Or are you constantly going over homework for most of the
period, barely having time to present the new lesson, assigning new
homework at the last minute thus creating a cycle where students are
truly frustrated? It's amazing how many veteran teachers fall into
this pattern. Your timing may be off. Allow time to clearly present a
lesson. Allow for practice in class. If time, allow them to start
their homework in class and you can walk around helping them. You
need time to find out what they need more help on.
3) Talk to your department head or someone you can
trust. Have this person visit your class and give you ideas about
seating arrangements, your lesson structure, your presentation, etc.
Don't try to deal with everything alone. Get a support system you can
trust. Never go around telling all your colleagues how horrible this
or that student is in your class. You might be surprised how word of
this gets back to the student. Some innocent remark by one of your
colleagues to this student, such as: "I hear things are not
going so well for you in Ms. Smith's class" can make everything
much much worse for you. You might be able to change some students to
a different class. Get the approval of your department head or
principal before you talk to your counselor asking for students to
change classes. Remember, as others give you advice, that what works
for some teachers may not work for you.
The discipline approach you use has to make you
feel comfortable.
4) Never overlook calling home. Most parents or
guardians are supportive. In most cases, I let the student know I
plan to call home. If you suspect the child's parent or guardian may
be uncooperative, or abusive, check with the counselor or with an
administrator that may know the family. Never assume that because the
parents don't attend school functions they don't care about their
child. Many parents work long hours. Some have had bad experiences
when they were in school or may be too embarrassed to hear that their
child is not doing well. When you talk to the child's parent or
guardian, mention the positive as well as the negative. Call home
sometimes just for good reasons, too.
5) Never make promises or threats you won't or
can't follow. It will only make everything worse in the classroom if
you lose the respect of your students.
6) Never lose it! You can raise your voice but
never engage in shouting matches with your students. Never say: Shut
up!. Never, never, try to physically remove a student. In fact, never
touch a student. You can be liable for touching a student unless it
is in self defense. Familiarize yourself with your school rules! If
you are very angry, try the silent method and try to gain control.
Appear relaxed and speak honestly about your expectations in a firm
but quiet tone.
6) Discipline problems that involve one or two
students are best solved by finding out as much as possible about
each student. Some students respond best by being talked to outside
of class. It's not a good idea to do this outside of your own class
because, for obvious reasons, you must never leave your class
unsupervised. You could try seeing the student after your class is
over so other students from the same class don't notice. Students are
more receptive if they know other students are not watching or
listening. Also, they won't have the temptation to show off in front
of their classmates.
Other things that may work are: Giving an important
job to an unruly student (not when they are being unruly, of course),
such as asking them to be a teacher assistant (I have tried having
new teacher assistant every week for each of my classes), group
recorder, errand person, using their A+ paper as the answer key, etc.
These positive gestures can help. Let the student know that you care
for him, but not for his behavior. Praise students honestly.
Do it often! By the way, some students don't like
to be praised in public and others do.
Having the student sign a behavior contract
and having a conference with the student and the vice-principal to
find ways to correct the problem. I've also met with the parent or
guardian and a third party (that's important), often with the student
present, to try to come up with a solution. Make it clear that you
still care for the student, but that you cannot tolerate her/his
behavior. One important thing to remember: Don't hold a grudge
against any student. Many teachers do and this makes everything get worse.
Remember, there are behaviors that cannot be
tolerated in the classroom and call for immediate action. If you or
any of your other students are physically threatened you must act
immediately. Seek help immediately if you cannot handle the situation
on your own. Your classroom should be equipped with a way of calling
the main office. Again, become familiar with your district's and
state's rules for discipline procedures. Never allow a student to
verbally abuse you or any other student.
Remember: Structure and fairness combined with
clear expectations and a clear lesson are the elements of good
teaching. Teaching is not easy. It does get better. Even after many
years of teaching, there are good days and bad days. Continue to
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